Petra.. Love is not something that you choose to feel towards someone... You only love someone if he/she imposes that on you by good deeds.. If he doesn't impose it on you, you shouldn't bother trying to love him... the situation you described does happen...nothing should be forced though...
Hi spirit, I understand exactly what you are saying...9 out 10..it's usually onesided love deemed with failure. However, from Failure comes success, honesty, appreciation to when it happens in your life and you have mutual love.."YOU GIVE YOUR LIFE FOR IT" so it stays alive.
Albert and spirit am happy to have you both here.. though i got a little confused because i think we have two Alberts here! the first Albert is with the first comment and Albert2 who replied to Spirit's comment :) let me first welcome you all in my little space.. it is good to have you all here
Albert1, you are right, no one forces people to feel anything toward him/her wether positive or negative. but my concern was my friend, a friend is a friend & good friends are very rare & precious nowadays so for me hurting a friend for the mere reason that i didnt like his/her friend is a big mistake. i know you have been regularly checking my blog for more than a year now and finally i got a comment.. 3eedha ;)
Spirit, i think love attracts love & hatred nourishes dislike.. it is what you give that comes back to you eventually. try smiling to a stranger & you will get one back.. :) here is one from me ;)
Albert, i think it is the "capped" Albert..right? :) Love never fails in all cases..and it is patient.. thanks for droping by ;) i will be checking yours too
now i leave some space for all of you to continue your chat :) God Bless
"CAPPED ALBERT"!!! what's that? **mashy** :D well! i'll find a name for u too. :) I enjoyed going through your blog. I made few comments here and there...check them out. call me later if you had a chance. bye
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Spirit,
it was a strange situation for me!!
friendship is something precious i always try to cherish.. don't worry :)
thanks for droping by, am happy to have you in my humble little space
God Bless
Petra..
Love is not something that you choose to feel towards someone...
You only love someone if he/she imposes that on you by good deeds..
If he doesn't impose it on you, you shouldn't bother trying to love him...
the situation you described does happen...nothing should be forced though...
Hi spirit,
I understand exactly what you are saying...9 out 10..it's usually onesided love deemed with failure. However, from Failure comes success, honesty, appreciation to when it happens in your life and you have mutual love.."YOU GIVE YOUR LIFE FOR IT" so it stays alive.
Albert and spirit
am happy to have you both here.. though i got a little confused because i think we have two Alberts here! the first Albert is with the first comment and Albert2 who replied to Spirit's comment :)
let me first welcome you all in my little space.. it is good to have you all here
Albert1,
you are right, no one forces people to feel anything toward him/her wether positive or negative. but my concern was my friend, a friend is a friend & good friends are very rare & precious nowadays so for me hurting a friend for the mere reason that i didnt like his/her friend is a big mistake.
i know you have been regularly checking my blog for more than a year now and finally i got a comment.. 3eedha ;)
Spirit,
i think love attracts love & hatred nourishes dislike.. it is what you give that comes back to you eventually. try smiling to a stranger & you will get one back..
:) here is one from me ;)
Albert,
i think it is the "capped" Albert..right? :)
Love never fails in all cases..and it is patient..
thanks for droping by ;) i will be checking yours too
now i leave some space for all of you to continue your chat :)
God Bless
"CAPPED ALBERT"!!! what's that? **mashy** :D well! i'll find a name for u too. :)
I enjoyed going through your blog. I made few comments here and there...check them out.
call me later if you had a chance. bye
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